It’s Love season and it’s worth celebrating.
It is interesting to know that in this generation where everything is fast paced romance seems to still be acknowledged.
Majority of Voters chose that they will rather be in a romance(ful) instead of money(ful) relationship.
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In the light of this,this will be my take:
We must not fail to first of all remember and put to use the knowledge of the fact that romance is a component of Love.
We have the Eros which is the physical, sensual and sexual attraction kind of love between a male and a female or lovers as it were. This is the category of love when we have the butterfly buzzing,gish gish feeling towards our partner.
The Phillia allows couples to be friends with each other, they have that intimacy in friendship where they can bare their heart and soul and they have found a companion in each other. They share their lives,time, moment and help each other without stress.
While the Agape is the unconditional love that has transcended beyond reasons but to a position of choice. This kind of Love does not need the partner to be physically perfect, lovers only have to make the choice of sticking together and enjoying life as it comes there-in.
Love itself is not based on material things so if that relationship must work, we must take away prioritising meeting our material needs as the essence of a working relationship.
This simply means that choosing money over the seemingly ‘first stage’ of Love will be fowl. We already lost the game before we played it!!
Inasmuch as the importance of money cannot be over emphasised, I am of the school of thought that believes that if two people are in a working relationship, full of butterflies in the tummy and all the available drama that comes with it also solid friendship,where there is synergy, positive energy, selflessness and understanding there is no limit to what they can achieve and that thing called money they will have in excess because there would be sound mind and peace for strategizing and pulling one another up.
Love is an experience worth having .It soothes the soul.
Invest in friendship, feelings actually come and go.
Only the choice that you make stays with you forever,therefore choose to Love and stand by it.
I hope this season brings you love in amazing places!!